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jason said: How do I know if I am saying the right things? I mean instead of coming across as the friend, but rather the boy friend or man she wants to be with romantically?

kyle said: thank you bic boi

Guest Mike said: Good tips Stephan, they make sense and allot of us men get nervous & either forget or loose focus. Here is what I think I really lack; learn how to use body language; how to flirt, how to use banter but most of all can you tell me how I can get out of the “friend zone”. You see I’ve been wedged in the friend zone for over a year now with this one very special woman and all my search for tips & techniques on how to seduce women is really centered around this one special woman. Any input is much appreciated.
Regards,
Mike

jimmy Guest said: Great advice. Id like to learn to be relaxed when talking to womenq

Tyler said: Ok so just to start this video was really helpful in its self but i have a problem. My problem is knowing what to say when all the conversation is mostly about her problems. I listen and the situation becomes awkward cause all i can really say is wow. SO I kinda need help there. My only other problem is that i dont know how to improvise that well so i was wondering if I could get some tips on that. Thank you soo much your videos help alot.

Thierry said: I was wondering one thing. Let’s say I really like this one girl and I start a conversation with her to her. Does letting her carry on more of the conversation one of the best way to have a good time for both of us.

George said: Hay stephan i watch your video on how to talk to a girl or something like that after you said that she will give you a que when she speaks but… Everytime i speak to girl they would answer me in a one or two word answer like yes, no, and, shut up when i’m teasing her but how can i continue conversation when she says that? I’m sorry for putting this in this video than the reg. video this from but, i think i might have a better chance of you seeing on your newsletter/website then your youtube account. But i would really appreciate you answer my question.

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  • Stephan said: There’s a video coming up for you that will give you a solution that will help you avoid one word answers. At the same time…the question is: If a girl repeatedly responds as little as possible then you’ve got to assume that she doesn’t want to carry on talking to you. There may be loads of reasons for this, you, what you say, how you approach her, her state of mind, her boyfriend…whatever…So would you WANT to continue the conversation? It should be fun for both of you or else there’s no point.

  • Guest says: Thanks Stephan for the insight and i’m looking forward to your next video.

jten said: how can i stop like freezig in middle of a conversation like when the conversation comes flatt

Guest said: how to raise a topic which leads to become close n close that makes path easy..?

Guest88 said: My issue with girls is I find it hard to keep a conversation going, and i definitely think too much throughout the conversation. I really need to know how to balance when to be nice and when to not. I have girls that like me and when I know I feel that I need to be this wonderful guy which does out well most of the time. I would like to know how to approach a girl with confidence?

Rajeev said: I really want to understand women because I think that if I can understand them, I will be able to communicate with them, I follow your videos on youtube and I have come to realize a lot of things I was totally unaware of. My biggest problem in talking to girls is initiating the conversation with the really beautiful girls and getting them interested with what I start the conversation with. If you could help me with this , I am gonna get it to practice right away.

Guest said: are there certain words to inject into the conversation that bypasses her rational mind and speak directly to her emotions. like if i described the burger i ate for lunch as— that was the juisiest burger ive ever eaten, it was warm and delicious and just melted in my mouth with no resistance. i was in love with the taste . you should have been there. id take you sometime but im not sure thats yur thing? can you use words in conversation that get her thinking about sex, even though thats not the conversation? does that make sense?

  • Stephan said: Hey, yes sure you can…it’s what I call “sensual” language and there’s a section in the program that explains it and takes you through examples and options. But…less is more. ;-)

ManWithAPlan said: Well, yes this video helped me alot but I have a situation. Where do I take her, and what do I say to her? Also I would like to know if you were in a relationship with a girl, but a long time ago…but you don’t know how to get back together, and how to know if she still likes you….

SwagItOut said: I liked the video and what you had to say. For me in general i have a hard problem approaching women, and asking the right questions because they do not respond to my question the way i assume they would. If you would help me build up my conversation skills i think it will be a big help.

Guest luigi said: how to start a fresh conversation.. for example shes sitting some place talking to here friends.. and u want to go talk to her.. but ur lil nervous cause their friends are their.. and nice video

Guest said: I liked the video but my problem is i cant keep a conversation and I go blank even when i listen to a girl. Can you give me some advice on what to say and how

  • Guest says: that used to happened to me, and its not cause ur thinking what to say next is that ur thinking about something else and ur worried u migth forget

Robert said: The listening part makes sense. I’m always so worried about what to say I miss the cues she leaves. I want help with this. My conversations usually last about 5 minutes because it’s to exhausting mentally for me. I feel out of my comfort zone, so I’m working hard to keep talking. I want to feel more natural when talking to women.

Marcus said: Good video Stephan,
My main problem when approching girls, is the approching bit. Im too nervouse or shy to even walk up to her.
I now know that there have been some girls that have liked me. But i was too focused on not to make myself look stupid to even realise that.

So here i am 21 years old, And no experiance with woman, but i will continue and watch your clips and see where they take me.
Thanks for great videos, and im looking foreward to more.

Guest jose said: well i saw this video and i can relate to this and yes it kinda makes sense

Guest said: My mind usually goes blank pretty quickly. I also think I sound boring when I’m talking even when I’m talking about something I like.